Karima is everywhere – at the top of the Champs Elysees handing out flyers, behind her counter welcoming customers, and later on she can be found helping out in the massage room.
Karima runs a hammam in Paris. Born in Algeria, she’s always on the lookout for business opportunities; initially, she wanted to organise trips for French tourists to her native country. Unable to find any insurance company who would provide her with cover, she had to think outside the box. She decided to import one of the best-known Algerian traditions to Paris.
She achieved her goal by taking a different route.
What about you? What route could you take to achieve the goal that has eluded you up until now?
A recent hike gave me the opportunity – and the time – to realise that giving up is not an option for me.
Had enough after 20 km on a 42 km marathon? Uh-uh! Abandoning a 1,000-km hike because of tendinitis? Don’t even think about it!
I may not be a top athlete, but I’ve discovered that I have a particular talent: the gift of perseverance.
An undecided client? I chase them up, make a counter offer and send him or her my best regards until we can do business together.
In short, this gift enables me to see the most ambitious projects through to the end.
A gift isn’t always obvious at first glance. What is it that enables you to fulfil your potential?
Over the dinner table, a fatalist argues that the world is corrupt and all is lost. He says that politicians and all kinds of powerful people behind the scenes pull the strings and that an ordinary mortal is powerless to do anything about it. We are on the road to ruin.
I don’t agree. The optimist in me sees the beginning of a tsunami (even a tsunami starts off small).
I see little waves getting bigger wherever I go:
We eat less meat. So do our friends.
We buy from local producers. Their shops are full of people.
My holidays involve walking in the countryside. The growing popularity of hiking appears to confirm a trend.
James F. Twyman says we should be the change that we want to see. “If you want to experience peace, become peace.” He suggests that we start by creating inside ourselves what we want to happen externally.
If a certain number of people confirm a trend, we can create our own tsunami. Conversely, sitting on our sofas and moaning achieves nothing.
What about you? What contribution do you make to the tsunami of change that you want to see?
Like all optimists I tend to think that most things are simple and easy to achieve. I’m in danger of becoming big-headed or too big for my boots.
A marathon? It’s all in the head. A 1000-km hike? You just need to put one foot in front of the other.
But I’m not Wonder Woman. The heel spur that causes me to postpone my marathon plans or the tendinitis that means I end up in accident and emergency at a Spanish hospital are both minor injuries. They are irritating, but they keep me humble when it comes to what capabilities I think I have.
Mathieu Ricard has a lovely way of describing it:
“Humility isn’t about seeing yourself as inferior but about lacking in self-importance.
It’s a state of simplicity that is in harmony with our true nature and allows us to savour the freshness of the present moment. Humility is a way of being, not a way of appearing.”
What about you? What injury has kept you humble and enabled you to appreciate your true nature?
A pilgrim comes to a village and sees a man sculpting stone.
The man looks tired and as if he is struggling.
As a good Christian, the pilgrim strikes up conversation with the man:
“Hello, what are you doing with that stone? Perhaps I can help you?”
The man replies curtly: “As you can see, I’m sculpting and it’s hard work!”
The pilgrim doesn’t pursue the matter. Further on, he sees a man who appears to be doing the same job. This man seems calm and collected. The pilgrim speaks to him and the man replies:
“My job is to sculpt this stone so that it fits into its allocated place in the building.”
The pilgrim happily goes on his way.
Further on, he sees another man who appears to be doing the same job. This man is humming to himself and seems happy. Delighted, the pilgrim strikes up a conversation:
“Good day sir. What are you doing? What is making you so happy?”
“I’m building a cathedral!”
The three men are all doing the same job.
What about you? What cathedral are you contributing to?